

Introduction
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Kids Are Designed To Control And Upset You
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You Are Designed To Outsmart Kids
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Clear, Simple, And Wrong Answers
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Behavior Is Communication
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You Can't Make A Kid Do Anything
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Timing Is Everything
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If You Want It, Teach It
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Kids Are the Experts
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Kids Want To Matter
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The Relationship Is the Key
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Closing
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